Hi- this is my first post. I am an American woman (50) married to a Japanese man living in Japan. I have been involved with a European woman, same age, same situation for a year. We both have 2 kids each. Sometimes I wonder if we are together more because we are in similar situations rather than true compatability. We have a deep friendship and intimacy, but there are some issues that prevent her from fully moving on in her life. I have more choices (financially, emotionally) Sometimes I think I should move somewhere else with a sizeable lesbian community to see what it would be like to meet others. I don't know where I would go or why I would go. I would love to be a community with women like me.
There are lots of Japanese lesbian groups and I know many and have friends,but I'd like to meet others in my situation and feel a bit lost.